tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.comments2024-01-28T09:52:30.550-08:00Arash's WorldArash Farzanehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comBlogger801125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-11729319122912098572024-01-28T09:52:30.550-08:002024-01-28T09:52:30.550-08:00Thanks for this, dear Vincent! It's quite fasc...Thanks for this, dear Vincent! It's quite fascinating because of its various connections with and within my life: Just mentioned ee cummings in a writers' group and wrote a couple of poems myself after more than a decade, have been thinking and talking about the role both past and present of the United States and have now personal connections and associations with Hungary! A very well-timed post that combines various important aspects for me (some might call them coincidences but not me) so thank you again for this ;)Arash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-54039111722501374202024-01-27T12:06:14.926-08:002024-01-27T12:06:14.926-08:00you may be interested in my latest post https://ro...you may be interested in my latest post https://rochereau.wordpress.com/2024/01/27/an-american-speaks-about-hungary-in-1956/Vincenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297306807695767580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-32435545922531523822023-12-16T10:24:08.094-08:002023-12-16T10:24:08.094-08:00Thank you, Suzy, for your comment and for sharing ...Thank you, Suzy, for your comment and for sharing your thoughts and insights here! I'm glad you agree because many people do not see it that way and easily fall for the charm and allure of narcissists, but you are absolutely right, they tend to cause harm to people especially those closest to them (which I also know and have witnessed from personal experience). I was wondering if there is a gender component at play, which is why I put both male and female narcissists side by side here as it seems that the public is softer on the female than the male narc.<br /><br />I think that narcissism exists on a spectrum and that some amount can be healthy as long as there is empathy involved (those more on the extreme are simply obsessed about themselves and do not have any true empathy whatsoever). That said, narcissists are exceptionally good at faking it all and deluding and manipulating others.<br /><br />Thanks again,<br /><br />ArashArash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-24989335904579876552023-12-14T01:40:22.541-08:002023-12-14T01:40:22.541-08:00Wow! I thought I was the only one who had perceive...Wow! I thought I was the only one who had perceived Diana as a narcissist. As I have a mother-in-law that is narcissist, (in fact she looks like Diana and maintain the same persona as Diana, she tries to portray her to others). But the damage she inflicted on my husband is terrible, so I must imagine how William suffered all these years. I think Harry is more like my brother-in-law, have some narc characteristics but not to full extent, maybe to protect himself. To me, as a person that had to study a lot about narcissism and have a family member with it, it was pretty obvious to look to Diana’s actions( seeking attention all the time, careless about her children’s feelings, playing victim all time) and evaluate her as a narcissistic person who fulfilled all her dreams that was be the center of all. I do think Harry has some narc characteristics too, but not to her extent. Great to read your post, thank you. Best wishes, Suzy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-21880852983192890522023-02-23T05:02:41.099-08:002023-02-23T05:02:41.099-08:00Great science info through podcasting. Everyone sh...Great science info through podcasting. Everyone should know about their health specially about bioptimizers. Do you know best international podcaster.sophia johanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02160409598485277168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-81360495582502948662022-09-02T17:26:42.571-07:002022-09-02T17:26:42.571-07:00'Dream your dreams about what YOU
want to do i...'Dream your dreams about what YOU<br />want to do in Heaven; dare to ask for<br />the impossible and all the gifts YOU<br />have ever wanted from Me. Expect Me<br />to hear YOU and fulfill your every desire'<br />-Jesus •(from 'Lui et Moi' [He and I] by<br />Gabrielle Bossi, French writer, translated)• <br /><br />☆ en.gravatar.com/MatteBlk ☆<br />Make Your Choice -SAWAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-80745678223540210282022-08-09T17:11:57.244-07:002022-08-09T17:11:57.244-07:00Further, women are not interested in superiority a...Further, women are not interested in superiority and even if we were, good on us because men have controlled and still control things and always have since time began. Women in so many parts of the world are still so far away from anything like equality. And the U.S. is doing all it can to bring women farther down. And in many ways in Canada there is still not equality Women are still being raped, beaten and killed in Canada by men. Girls and women are being trafficked into and out of Canada.Women still esrn6 less than men. Women are expected to work full time and cook, clean, take care of the kids. That burden still falls mainly on them. Way more single moms and deadbeat dads than the other way around. On and on. The Metoo movement continues to expose the abuse of women by men.<br />And that is just Canada. And men still think they can talk about how the women's movement has gone too far. They are given that platform. It is remarkable. <br />Karen<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-8491066848597967172022-08-09T08:17:13.746-07:002022-08-09T08:17:13.746-07:00Interesting but not an unconscious bias. You sugg...Interesting but not an unconscious bias. You suggest that there needs to be many steps to being able to acquire an abortion as it is at times not taken seriously enough. You have absolutely no way of knowing this unless you are in the heads of women which I am assuming you are not. The opinions of others are not required for amy medical procedure a man has, the moral opinions of others and again, if it were men who were pregnant, this wouldn't even be a conversation. Abortions would be legal without question. It is all an issue of patriarchy and comtrol of women. That is why Roe v Wade fell.. control of women. The very conscious bias is that women and their bodies must be controlled by all means necessary. As for domestic violence, it is overwhelmingly men abusing their wives. But some men like to add but women too! even though that is much much more rare.<br />I hadn't realized I was anonymous. It is Karen.<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-71636652704407486102022-08-09T07:36:26.663-07:002022-08-09T07:36:26.663-07:00Dear Anonymous,
Thank you for your comment. You j...Dear Anonymous,<br /><br />Thank you for your comment. You just happened to confirm various points I made in the piece, and technically, it would now not be considered an unconscious bias anymore ;)<br /><br />I believe that right or wrong, true or false, opinions do matter regardless of gender, cultural or religious background. Arash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-40452665886413083022022-08-08T18:31:35.194-07:002022-08-08T18:31:35.194-07:00I will always maintain that men have no right wha...I will always maintain that men have no right whatsoever to tell a woman what to do with her own body. How different things would be if men got pregnant instead of women. What world religions say, what the Dalai Lama says, what the pope says, what Bob down the street says are utterly irrelevant. Yet men continue to think their opinions matter on this because patriarchy. You are a smart guy, Arash, smarter than I will ever be, but ugh<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-69260933861299732242022-07-22T14:16:31.915-07:002022-07-22T14:16:31.915-07:00No doubtNo doubtArash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-48448546968970328272022-07-21T08:37:09.790-07:002022-07-21T08:37:09.790-07:00I understand that President Biden is doing everyth...I understand that President Biden is doing everything he humanly can to right these wrongs Vincenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297306807695767580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-23965354301996330702022-06-07T17:18:44.472-07:002022-06-07T17:18:44.472-07:00Ha about the pool. I am old and jaded. Millions of...Ha about the pool. I am old and jaded. Millions of people throughout history have felt they have the key to happiness. As a side note, Jesus did not but so many are insistent that he did..It is amazing that you have found inner peace and that it works for you. People do tend to get evangelistic when they have found what works for them. I have often seen it although mainly among born again Christians. But there is no one thing that works for everyone. But I am genuinely happy for you..<br /> Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00659296185770101294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-51024935438353313652022-06-07T09:45:28.079-07:002022-06-07T09:45:28.079-07:00That's very sweet of you, Karen, and thanks fo...That's very sweet of you, Karen, and thanks for your comments! I appreciate the worry and concern but rest assured that everything is indeed peachy and wonderful, and I've never felt better, more complete, and more myself than I do now!<br /><br />This is reflected in both physical and mental health and overall clarity. Feel free to check out my podcast in which I talk to various experts on these issues and matters. <br /><br />Now that I can see how and where others go wrong and what to do about it to attain healing and the realization that life itself - despite elements of suffering - is indeed beautiful and magical, I feel it as a moral obligation to help others just as a boddhisattva would. I am not claiming to be one but I find it inspiring.<br /><br />And, in all fairness, the swimming pool was optional ;)<br /><br /><br /><br />Arash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-63568818196389292662022-06-07T07:44:02.489-07:002022-06-07T07:44:02.489-07:00I realize I spoke out of turn. You are a very inte...I realize I spoke out of turn. You are a very intelligent and kind man and I should have trusted thst you know what you are doing. My voice here was not helpful or necessary and that is on me.<br /><br /> Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00659296185770101294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-6105123699329864912022-06-06T21:17:16.123-07:002022-06-06T21:17:16.123-07:00Oh and I can't check my Google email. If you s...Oh and I can't check my Google email. If you sent to get in touch (even to tell me how offensive I have been) karensegal@hotmail.com. I met a guy in a hostel in Rome years ago who told me he was to meet with the pope and give him a special message.Apparently God had told him to do that. It was creepy. Don't think he ever did it as far as I know anyway. Not sure what you may mean about helping others see the light but as far as I know, noone has such special spiritual insight as to have that power. All that said, people with delusions grandeur cannot be talked out of it. Happy to go further into this if you would like.Or not maybe you with to tell me off. Fair enough. Funny I hadn't thought about that guy in Rome for years until today and I needed that example for you here. I mean no harm. Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00659296185770101294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-81996833722303421352022-06-06T21:06:25.882-07:002022-06-06T21:06:25.882-07:00Goodto read your blog again, Arash. Karen formerly...Goodto read your blog again, Arash. Karen formerly of PGIC here.Have you quit your teaching job to go full time into coaching? I find that interesting and daunting. You sre a very intelligent man as I recall! I will say if I may (so maybe not) that I feel some concern when folks say they want to.make a difference on a global scale in almost any endeavor. I have a friend who every few years thinks that way and to be honest he is bipolar and struggles with delusions of grandeur. Not saying that is the case here and I of course haven't been in touch with you for years but who am I. But it seems you have quit your steady job woth a family to support in hopes of being invited to speak around the world. You are asking for money for a swimming pool. I hope I am way off base and so wrong as to be offensive but I walked with my friend whose husband had delusions of grandeur and it was very painful for her. Hope I am wrong and I wish you well.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00659296185770101294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-81716731189761408072022-04-14T16:47:52.179-07:002022-04-14T16:47:52.179-07:00Thank you for your comment and suggestion, Vincent...Thank you for your comment and suggestion, Vincent! I fully and wholeheartedly agree with this wonderful and absolutely true statement about mindfulness:<br /><br />"But true mindfulness, Hanh explains, is not an escape. It is being in the present moment, totally alive and free." Yes and yes!<br /><br />I am and have been fond of Zen Buddhism for many years of my life, and I think, the late, wise and amazing Thich Nhat Hanh embodies it very well, and I shall definitely check out your recommended reading!<br /><br />As always, thank you for your beautiful wishes and words of encouragement, Carla! It means a lot to me, and you have and always will be an inspiration for me with your kind words, wisdom and insights, and stunningly profound books! Much appreciated!<br />Arash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-45489546071052085872022-04-12T10:38:14.022-07:002022-04-12T10:38:14.022-07:00Arash,
I am beyond thrilled for you and your ong...Arash, <br /><br />I am beyond thrilled for you and your ongoing journey. You are such a light of love, wisdom, honesty, courage, and integrity. Thank you for being a peaceful warrior of the heart and soul! <br /><br />Those who are blessed enough to be guided by your wise, mindful coaching and counseling will surely evolve toward being their best selves. <br /><br />Thank you for bringing your many gifts and talents into the wellness and counseling community; your skills are much-needed. <br /><br />May your journey continue to be blessed! <br /><br />With great joy and love,<br /><br />Carla Marie Manly <br />Dr. Carla Marie Manlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10509201402767495072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-67593698429100856992022-04-09T11:54:55.585-07:002022-04-09T11:54:55.585-07:00There's a book, You Are Here:Discovering the M...There's a book, <i>You Are Here:Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment</i> by Thich Nhat Hanh.<br /><br />Here's the publisher's blurb on Amazon, from where I recently bought the Kindle edition:<br /><br />In this book, Thich Nhat Hanh—Zen monk, author, and meditation master—distills the essence of Buddhist thought and practice, emphasizing the power of mindfulness to transform our lives. But true mindfulness, Hanh explains, is not an escape. It is being in the present moment, totally alive and free.<br /><br />Based on a retreat that Thich Nhat Hanh led for Westerners, <i>You Are Here</i> offers a range of effective practices for cultivating mindfulness and staying in the present moment—including awareness of breathing and walking, deep listening, and skillful speech. These teachings will empower you to witness the wonder of life and transform your suffering, both within and outside you, into compassion, tenderness, and peace. As Thich Nhat Hanh declares, “the energy of mindfulness is the energy of the Buddha, and it can be produced by anybody.” It is as simple as breathing in and breathing out.<br /><br />It's very relevant to your new venture. I'll email you a few pages.Vincenthttps://rochereau.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-44552101576065609602021-10-10T18:16:10.845-07:002021-10-10T18:16:10.845-07:00Quite to the contrary, narcissists tend to have ve...Quite to the contrary, narcissists tend to have very expressive eyes and tend to be quite charming, attractive and good-looking. They love to live and thrive off their looks, and Diana is a prime example of that! Yet they are dead and machine-like inside, without feelings, emotions and without any traces of conscience.Arash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-32680762196259174732021-10-08T13:45:38.782-07:002021-10-08T13:45:38.782-07:00I don't think Lady Diana was a narcissist. Na...I don't think Lady Diana was a narcissist. Narcissists have dead eyes for a start. Lady diana had very expressive eyes.PalestineSupporterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03561190239376060922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-9374978423462593592021-09-29T12:02:37.685-07:002021-09-29T12:02:37.685-07:00Dear Arash, I completely take back my defensive ob...Dear Arash, I completely take back my defensive objection to your remarks about "our" Queen, after watching "The Crown" on Netflix. Have you been watching it? Even taking account the portrayal in exaggerated caricatures. How much damage she has done, with her stiffness and false priorities, especially on Charles & Diana's official visit to Australia, when she insisted on taking baby William along, and never wanting him out of her sight.<br /><br />But as the Crown also shows, the damage caused by the Queen to her own family is nothing compared with the disastrous premiership of Margaret Thatcher. I'm shocked that I voted for her, three times.<br /><br />Just wanted to set the record straight ... Vincenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297306807695767580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-50816548597803218282021-09-11T13:17:00.585-07:002021-09-11T13:17:00.585-07:00What a lovely interview! I'm so grateful to be...What a lovely interview! I'm so grateful to be able to share supportive insights that promote healthy love and connected relationships! Dr. Carla Marie Manlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10509201402767495072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1367161100956691682.post-17372909286438319152021-09-06T16:30:43.770-07:002021-09-06T16:30:43.770-07:00Thank you, Dr. Carla! It's much appreciated ;)...Thank you, Dr. Carla! It's much appreciated ;)Arash Farzanehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12000344680925876563noreply@blogger.com