Everybody
has a story, or rather, everyone has their own narratives. We soon
become not only a figment of our imagination (with the so-called ego
being the most persuasive one), but are also more often than not
ruled by the imaginations of others. Society, those formless yet
tangible and ever-present eyes stare at us, judge, and define us. It
is in others that we view and reflect ourselves and it is in others
that we check for confirmation of our self-identity.
In
fact, it is quite normal to misjudge ourselves, including our
personality, our abilities, and our performance (at work and in bed).
You may think you are the handsomest or funniest man alive, but when
no girl turns her head in your direction or no one laughs at your
jokes, you might want to re-evaluate how you see yourself and find
something that is more in line with reality.
This
can also work in its opposite direction where we underestimate
ourselves. We may suffer from minority complexes or think we are not
a good person or not skilled enough, but all of it may be subsumed to
the distorted and fragmented mirror of insecurity that we see
ourselves in.
However,
self-identity is not limited to individuals. It is more overarching
than that. Self-identity is also related to companies and more
importantly, countries. Countries define imaginary borders that over
time and through different narrative strands become an accepted
reality. It is the history of culture and national identity that
forms the present, but at anytime these stories can be changed or
redirected towards other goals and objectives.
These
are stories that we swallow up and they become ingrained in society,
which in turn influences the individual perspectives. Such narratives
can give us grounding and comfort, but they can also become
dangerous, especially when they are belligerent or when they lead to
exclusion of or aggression towards others.
In
the past, the narrative of communism influenced major decisions and
plans when it came to foreign policies or downright reasons and
pretexts for wars. Today that narrative has been replaced with
terrorism. I am not saying that terrorism does not exist, but that it
has become part of the global lens through which decisions are made,
fear is created and augmented, and wars are wagered. This brief
introduction hopefully shows how important these narratives are and
how we often weave them into our identity; in some situations, we
even become entangled in them and do not see the truth and reality
out there.
Now
let us talk about the awesome book by Dr. Saqib Qureshi entitled
Reconstructing
Strategy: Dancing with the God of Objectivity.
It is a mouthful of a title, but do not be discouraged by it; this
book is indeed a rewarding read that is worth your time. The author
Qureshi shows us that the problem with strategies whether related to
the individual, the company or even countries is the fact that they
overlook the important influence and impact of self-identity.
By
strategy Qureshi and I simply mean defining and setting the starting
and endpoints and finding the means to get there. For example, an
individual may see himself at the current point, i.e. myself on the
obese side, and then envision himself on the desired side, a skinny
and healthy me (ideally the teenage version of myself). Then the
trick is to find the best way or strategy for getting to that point.
In
this situation, it is easy to give cookie-cut or sample answers. Go
to the gym and work out for two hours a day, you may say. But this
strategy may not work for everyone, or it may not be the best
solution for all. I for one do not like gyms and would soon feel
discouraged and drop the whole thing altogether, so goodbye to this
strategy. This is when knowing the personal details, the make-up of
the body, underlying health issues or psychological problems or
preferences would help to find the best path for the given
individual.
To
give another example, an academic adviser would not tell you to
become an engineer, but would need to take into consideration your
skills, interests and capacities. In most cases, financial
information as well as personal preferences regarding living space
and environment becomes of importance as well. Put differently, there
is no objective truth for the best strategy out there; there are a
number of individual differences to consider. What is good or
interesting for me may not be so for you.
This
may seem like common sense, but the main reason we do not use it is
that our modern world and science has led us to believe that we can
be objective. This has been a modern philosophical trend where
knowledge is claimed to be pure and free of subjective vestiges.
Scientists claim to know the facts, and these facts are purported to
be applicable to all situations and conditions. (Thank God for
quantum mechanics for shaking that hubris a little and for bringing
about occasional headaches in firm and headstrong scientists!)
And
guess what, the claim for objectivity is another narrative we have
come to swallow. It's a good and sturdy one, for sure, but nobody can
fully and truly be objective since there are always, whether we
acknowledge it or not, social, cultural, psychological influences
that guide us hither and thither. This is phenomenology messing with
our wannabe objective minds.
After
setting up the theoretical basis, Qureshi looks at different examples
and case studies from each of the categories, namely of the
individual, the company, and the nation. For example, in case of
individuals, he looks at Jan Morris who changed his sex and
found a better fit for his both perceived and felt identity. As a
result, he became not only physically a woman, but also engaged in
what sociologists call role theory: society helped and made him
behave, think and identify as a woman.
For
instance, she became less skilled with car mechanics and lost some of
her math skills. This is not meant to claim that women are innately
bad at these things, but simply that they are perceived or expected
to be bad at them, which often, but not always, becomes a
self-fulfilling fallacy.
In
these situations, we can see how we more closely identify with the
role we are supposed to play in society. This also applies to the
change of fatherhood. It happens quickly and suddenly; our
self-identity shifts and what was important yesterday is not so
today. Shelve those dreams of riding in a fast car, which is
expensive and, more significantly, dangerous, and replace it with the
safer and more family-friendly station wagon.
Yet
Qureshi's example of Ed Husain was the most poignant one. In his
young adulthood, Husain unfortunately got caught up in radical Islam
and this ended up shaping his worldview to the utmost degree. He
ended up shunning family, friends, alcohol and girls, and all of this
happened within a short period of time. It shows us that we can be
brainwashed quickly and adopt a very different self-identity as a
result. The same happens to anyone who joins cults or any other
extreme and radical group or society.
Qureshi
further looks at such shifts within countries. His most interesting
example was that of Iran that within a few years changed from a
Westernized place filled with booze and miniskirts (imagine that!) to
the place we think of today that is religiously strict or strictly
religious. The defining moment was the 1979 Islamic Revolution that
shifted gears and radically changed the identity of the country
affecting the lives and destinies of millions of people.
In
terms of businesses, I found his description and depiction of
Disneyland the most appealing. In this case, he claims that a clear
and focused identity, that is the desire to create happiness for all
and to offer a synthetic fantasy world that is free of litter and
everyday worries, helps to create the best strategy at hand. There
may be other amusement parks and competition out there, but none
compare to the paramount and resilient success of Disneyland /
-world.
So
far I have had nothing but praise for the book. It is indeed a timely
one considering globalization and global politics. And the author
backs it up with erudite knowledge and studies ranging from business
and political sources to psychological and philosophical research.
The fact that he himself is a Muslim gives the whole a healthy and
refreshing spin on these current issues, and he has interesting views
and insights on Gitmo and Dubya.
What
further impressed me was the fact that he was using what are deemed
by many as non-academic but popular sources to back up his claims.
The most portentous would be to include Dr. Phil as an embodiment of
life strategy approaches. Why not? And then there are quotes from
Buzz Lightyear and other popular memes.
Yet
there is a downside to this book; the flaw is minor, but I need to
mention it in order to give a balanced perspective here. The author
thinks himself funnier and wittier than he is in reality. Sorry to
burst the bubble! The reason might be that his humor is too
self-conscious; put differently, he is trying too hard to please or
amuse the reader.
Notwithstanding,
there are a few really funny bits, such as Hegel's hypothetical cover
letter for a communications firm being rejected or that the author
consistently over time does not see himself as a “fluid lesbian.”
But these humorous instances are rather rare. His constant references
to McDonald's also sounded more of an endorsement than intended. It
reminded me of a class I was giving where I detailed the many harmful
effects of fast food by using the Golden Arches as an example.
However, right after the break, the majority of my students showed up
with packages of that same food I intended to discourage!
Also,
while I am nagging with his style, there was a bit too much
repetition for me. Yes, he did hammer his message home, but he could
have used fewer nails to do so. Just saying.
But
I am more than glad to have had the opportunity to read and review
this wonderful book. Many thanks to the author and to Kristi Hughes
for sending me an advance copy to peruse (and apologies for taking my
sweet time to do so)! If you are interested in strategy, business,
foreign policy, political history, psychology or you just want a good
comprehensive book to read, this one ought to be on your shelf!
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