Moderate amounts of stress are good for your health and
performance. Keeping busy and being on your toes in the workplace can increase
productivity, while without a necessary dose of stress, you would either feel bored or you would achieve less or obtain lower results.
This is the good kind of stress (eustress)
that is situated in the Goldilocks zone and that ideally neither under- nor
overwhelms you but rather pushes you in the direction of achieving more and
better results.
Yet more often than not, we become taxed and overwhelmed by
stress. Whether it is that we take on more than we can chew or handle and
juggle too many responsibilities, whether it is that stress accumulates over
time or whether it is due to high expectations of ourselves and others, such as
bosses or colleagues, we often feel driven into an endless cycle of continuous
work and end up feeling the brunt of it.
Stress can overwhelm us, and in its
chronic form, it can deplete us and be the cause of a variety of conditions and
illnesses ranging from diabetes, hypertension and depression, to strokes, heart
attacks, and even suicide.
In many cultures around the world, stress is not
only seen as an essential and necessary part of life, it is also something that
is worn as a badge of honour. When we are stressed, it may signify and
mean that others are counting and depending on us; in other words, we feel needed, sought after, and feel indispensable as an employee.
In those cases, we see and define
ourselves as hard-working and as someone who is striving for excellence and see
it as something to brag about and to be proud of. The idea is that the
more and the harder we work, the more success as well as monetary rewards will flow
to us. Although this may be true in some instances, the downside cost that
comes with it is too immense to make it a worthwhile endeavor: a decline in and loss of
health leading to potential early death.
Although I have been studying stress and its effects on our body
and psyche, it was during a recent webinar by Kiki Vreeling from the RotterdamSchool of Management, Erasmus University that I gleaned additional vital
information about the harmful effects of stress on our health and well-being.
Kiki aka Ki² is a consultant and trainer of Personal Leadership for companies, and she advises not only on how to effectively
deal with stress but also provides tips for business leaders and executives on
how to create a better and more productive work environment for themselves,
their employees, and their company as a whole.
Generally, people feel stressed when they are facing a change.
This could be a new work situation or also different work conditions, such as
the current changing and volatile working environments due to the
Coronavirus. This causes a strain not only on employees and their managers but
also on the clients as well. When situations or parameters are unknown or
indefinite, and when results or definite outcomes are hard or difficult to come
by, our stress levels will naturally rise.
Stressors cause a reaction in our brain, which then causes a
body response. Our body becomes ready for fight or flight, and in some cases,
we merely freeze. On its own, this does not necessarily cause harm, but when we
are in a constant state of stress with little time to rest or recover, this can
lead to an untenable situation and wreak havoc on our health.
Most of the threats we experience are not of the physical
kind - unless we work as essential service providers, such as police officers,
fire fighters and paramedics - but for most of us the threat or stressor is
merely a thought, either about the past or the future, and sometimes a
combination of both. In either case, while our body is in the present, our mind
rarely is. We may remember previous experiences, or they may unconsciously
influence our current states and feelings, or we may worry about the future,
what might occur or happen down the line.
Most of the time, our thoughts are negative. This has an
evolutionary background as negative events tended to become more salient and
important for our survival. No matter how many times we may enjoy the singsong
of birds and the beautiful view of the forest, if we encounter even once a
tiger down that path, we are doomed.
Nine times out of ten nothing may happen
on our trail, but that one negative event could indeed cost our lives. Hence,
that one negative experience we had, if we managed to survive it, could easily
erase and dissolve all the other nine beautiful ones we had previously experienced.
In modern life, as there is rarely a physical or existential
threat - barring the current pandemic of course - most of our threats are
imaginary. They are the cause of our stress and more often they are not based
on facts, but they reflect our own levels of anxiety. A mistake or misstep at
work may not necessarily lead to our dismissal or a demotion, but in our mind,
we tend to focus on the worst, and we tend to exaggerate the outcome and make
it seem worse than it really is.
In fact, our own attitude could also be the source of stress, or at least add to it. When we refuse to accept a situation, we may feel
frustration and be overwhelmed by a feeling of helplessness, which may have its
roots in our early childhood experience, and then we feel blocked, stagnant,
and stressed. We become stubborn and refuse to move or budge and that increases
our stress levels.
Of course, our work or living environment may be a cause of
stress as well. It may even be family members, colleagues, bosses, or the
company itself. Stress can be emanating
from work and from our personal lives; we often experience stress from a
combination and variety of sources that simply add up and make us feel even
more helpless when facing difficult circumstances.
Although I started off with the idea that stress can be good
for us, most of the time, this is not the case. Stress has not only negative
effects on our health, but it also negatively affects our performance. The bottom
line is that people under high levels of stress do not perform well. They are
generally nervous and less creative and less resourceful. In fact, they are
also less open to new ways of thinking, of thinking outside of the box, and
they are less effective at solving problems.
Why does this occur? We need to look at the brain to better
realize the effects of stress. The stress hormone that is released within our
body is cortisol, and our experience of stress affects the hippocampus of the
brain.
As this part of the brain becomes overworked, it will influence memory
and learning. In other words, we would not only be unable to take in new
information but may also forget the information we had in the first place. This
is certainly not an ideal situation for the employee who wishes to perform well.
Add to this, the effect that stress has on the frontal lobe.
This region is called the CEO of the brain, and it is responsible for
attention, self reflection, empathy, and regulating impulses. When the frontal
lobe is impaired due to stress, it will become more difficult to focus and pay
attention, and one will easily get frustrated or angry and snap at others.
Since our headspace is filled with stress and worry, we cannot take in anything
else and will burst and explode at minor triggers and events.
Finally, with the frontal lobe basically out of the picture,
the amygdala is activated and does as it pleases. Negative emotions are stored
in this part of the brain, and this is why we tend to become more negative when
we are stressed. The amygdala scans for danger and may perceive it where it is
not present. One’s levels of control and concentration will drop, and inversely,
irritation and worry will increase.
This is the vicious cycle of stress. When we are stressed,
we tend to over control things, we overdo things and then old unhealthy habits
and coping mechanisms surge up seemingly out of nowhere. This state of stress,
if repeated over long periods of time, will lead to burnout, for which we have
no medicine, and then your body and mind will break down as a result. In some
cases, it can lead to irreversible harm and damage to both body and mind.
What can we do about stress? One of the most important
things is mindfulness. Once we are aware of the stress and how and in what ways
it affects us, we are better able to process, steer and influence it, and with
practice and experience, we could also learn how to stop it. This is a much
more cumbersome and time-consuming path than presented here, but the first step
starts with mindfulness and awareness.
The other thing to keep in mind is the significant distinction
between acute and chronic stress. We need to ask ourselves how often we have
stress and how long does this state last. Occasional bouts and spikes of stress
can be handled and dealt with and might fall into the category of the good kind
of stress mentioned earlier. But if it is constant and never-ending, we are
basically setting ourselves up for failure and disaster.
We must also keep in mind that stress is cumulative. When
stress starts to take its toll, we can see the first signs of its effects. Our
body will feel tense, our heart rate goes up and our breathing becomes shorter
and faster.
This then leads to headaches and migraines and will affect our
sleep pattern. As it becomes more difficult to get rest, and we nonetheless
keep pushing ourselves to the brink, we will not be able to shake off the
stress, and it keeps getting worse.
A good method to release it is to share our emotional states
with others. This can be with trusted friends or family members, and in these
times of the pandemic, it can also be done virtually. We can connect with others
through facetime, Zoom, Skype or any other online resource to communicate our needs
and feelings and to share how we are coping with stress and with the difficulties
in our lives.
We also need to make time to listen to others. After we have
shared what we are going through, we ought to take the time to also listen to
them and to see how they are doing and faring as it cannot be only about us.
Stress tends to narrow our view and focus, and we ought to broaden it to
include others as well. In fact, stress should be an open topic to talk about
with friends and co-workers.
The employer also has a vital role to play when it comes to
stress management. First off, they need to manage their own stress levels and
emotions. They are human too, and they also will feel the effects of stress.
However, because of their position in the company and the influence they have
on their employees, they need to try their best to manage their own emotions
first.
Many employers may consider and dismiss managing emotions as
a soft skill, but this is not true. Managing stress is a power skill because it
is important for performance, both one’s own and that of others. Companies need
to take that into consideration and make it a priority in the workplace. They
should also lead by example by showing their employees that they have and maintain
their own emotions under control as much as that is possible under the
circumstances.
This is significant because stress is contagious. Not unlike
yawning where people catch on and follow suit, we also tend to notice and feel
stress vicariously. This is because of mirror neurons that copy the other
person’s emotional state. Similarly, the managers’ and board’s level of stress
can be felt by the employees both physically as well as mentally.
The flip side
is also at play here. People who are calm and can lead with a steady hand will
have a soothing effect upon others and that can lead to an overall reduction of
stress for everyone involved.
Moreover, people in a company need trust, stability,
compassion, and hope. For employees to trust the company, the employer needs to
be transparent. They do not need to have - and often they do not have - all the answers, especially in volatile and
uncertain times such as Covid-19, but they can still be clear about timelines
and decisions.
Furthermore, they need to make sure they show compassion and
empathy for their workers and demonstrate that they care about them by
periodically checking in on their employees’ needs and concerns.
Employees need to be involved and need to feel part of the
solution. When an employer does not simply order their workers about but seeks
and values their input and makes them part of the decision process, not only
does it make the employee feel validated and part of the team, but it also
reduces their stress levels; they see themselves with at least some autonomy
and power within the organization.
To make this more effective, the employer
needs to not only take their worker’s input into consideration, but they also
ought to act upon it, to make a policy out of some of the given suggestions or
recommendations and to commit to them.
The employer can also put programs and conditions into place
that reduce stress levels at the workplace. This could be reducing noise and
stimulation levels so that the employees can work in a calm and relaxed
environment.
When this is not possible or feasible, the company can create a
separate calm and quiet space for their employees where people can take a short
break from the hustle and bustle of the day and recharge for the next shift or for
the subsequent hours of work. Social events and programs during which employees
and employers can freely mingle is also a great idea and can be a useful
bonding experience for all involved.
Moreover, like professional athletes, employers and
employees also need time off to recuperate. We would not ask an athlete to
perform constantly without time off; likewise, our minds and bodies also need
that well-deserved rest to recover and to replenish their energy. In fact, once
the stress levels go down, which can occur during a short break or vacation,
one ends up not only feeling better, but one also has more energy and creativity
at one’s disposal.
Business people need to keep in mind that time may be money,
but downtime is equally necessary to ensure personal maintenance, which leads
to more productivity and better quality of work. We should not always be on the
go but need that necessary “me time” to relax and recharge our body and mind.
By taking care of oneself, one is also taking care of the team, and vice
versa.
We should not stuff our days, but we need that designated
work and stress-free day where we can switch off our mind and body and focus on
other important things in life, such as one’s friends, one’s family or even
simple and well-deserved time for oneself.
If you think, you are wasting time,
this is simply not true. The time gained in terms of productivity and
creativity will surely make up for it and will pay dividends in the end.
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