Secondly, this also underscores the importance of moderation
and although we can counter that the practice and statement itself should be
also taken in moderation, i.e. everything to be taken in moderation including
moderation itself, yet it should be seen as a more balanced way of refraining
being taken or rather being taken in by any radical one-sided viewpoints and
lifestyles. Lastly, we should question everything including questioning whether
we should question all things, or not. The main aim here is not to confuse or play
with words but to point to serious issues and reach some potential and
hopefully clearer understanding of them.
Otto Rank in his book Beyond Psychology points
at the internal conflict and dilemma of the educational system, which at the
same time becomes a microcosm and symbol of the paradox of human existence. On
one side, education aims at general knowledge and the formation and development
of the self, as in the inspirational Greek call for self-discovery, namely, to
search for and “know thyself.”
Yet on the other hand, there must be necessary limits,
restraints, and compromises for society to co-exist together in relative peace
and harmony, a type of social contract or acceptance of laws and
responsibilities to be able to live together. This is the other aim of
education to help and guide us by living the life the way we want while also
balancing it with accepting and respecting others to be able to do the same. It
is individuality pitted against social conformity, or the individual good versus
the common good, and education is the playground where this is played out.
It is a balancing act between what Otto Rank calls the psychology
of difference versus the psychology of likeness
and it affects us all in one way or another. We want to stand out and be
different in terms of our own personality and ways of thinking and being, yet
not to the extreme idiosyncratic degree where we would have nothing in common
with others. We do need others not only as a foil or point of comparison, but
we need them in the sense of our own identity formation be it via groups,
clans, nations, families etc. all making part of that which we personally identify
with.
It is an existential push and pull (the duality of being an individual) and if taken to its
extreme on the side of individuality it can lead to eccentric behavior at best
and utter madness at its worst, while conformity in its extreme would strip us
of everything that makes us unique, and we would, again at its worst and most
extreme, be nothing but a mindless cog in the machine or a humanoid instead of
a full-fledged human being.
Education finds itself at this crossroad. On one hand, at
least ideally, it wants to help us put ourselves on the path of self-discovery
to find ourselves and to bring out not only our unique ways of being but aid us
in expressing this via speaking and writing and to guide us towards thinking
for ourselves, commonly referred to as critical thinking. That said, I much
prefer the term thinking outside of the box
and in that sense to be authentic, steadfast, and even revolutionary in one’s own
thoughts and viewpoints.
Yet, left on its own and unharnessed, this could potentially
lead to chaos and dissonance, and even further left field to anarchistic
tendencies, hence education wants to also help us maintain and adhere to social
order. This is not meant in the fascist or communist sense but rather as its
opposite, to uphold democracy and democratic tenets and not to give sway to
forms of totalitarianism of any stripe or color.
As Otto Rank put it, communism and fascism are two sides on
the same coin. It is in either case, a denial of freedom and choice by means of
force and violence. In communism, the ideology that we are all the same and
equal is enforced and imprinted upon everyone whereas individual difference is
not only frowned upon but intentionally stifled.
In the case of fascism, we have the opposite end of the
spectrum; it is the individual and their differences that are underscored alongside
the belief that a given collective group, entity, and ethnicity is not perceived as
equal and as a matter of fact deemed superior to others. In both situations,
the individual and their rights and choices are disregarded and trampled upon
for the sake of what each ideology sees as the common good.
Education plays a crucial and often unspoken role in all of this
by ways and means of indoctrination. Ideologies are then inserted, consciously
or unconsciously, into the curriculum or the institution. Education ought to be
free of any politics or ideologies but, in practice, this is often a different
story. A particular ideology may hold sway at a given time and/or in a certain
environment, and, as such, the school or university would not be educating
people anymore but molding and even brainwashing them.
This is not limited to the realm of education but also
applies to psychology. The current norm is upheld as a golden standard and
everything that goes against it in one way or another is shunned. The individual
who does not fit the particular mold is then fashioned and molded to get rid of
the parts that are in conflict with it. This could be achieved via different
means and methods, ranging from medication, institutionalization, or on a more
common basis, by changing thoughts and views through cognitive therapy. The
given patient or client is adjusted and re-adjusted to what is considered to be
the current standard of sanity or normalcy.
Certainly, in many cases, this is indeed helpful and
necessary as I would not want to state absolute statements or throw the baby
out with the bathwater. Yet, the problem lies exactly in the mistaken belief
that one’s view is and must be absolutely correct, whether we are talking about
the patient, the psychiatrist, or the mental health expert.
This can be evidenced in what was considered abnormal in the
past, including any difference or deviation in terms of sexuality or sexual
preferences. What was considered abnormal and even illegal has become more
accepted and commonplace because our views, values, and ways of thinking have
changed. We have in addition to the conflict between the self and the other,
the individual and society, another factor that is rigidity versus openness and
flexibility.
That is another element of a delicate balancing act, and it should be a staple not only in psychology, politics, and education but also a personal practice of each and every one to move from fixed beliefs and mindsets to one of curiosity and empathy so that one is not held captive or hostage by the latest trends and fashions of the day.
Change is a constant that we experience in our daily life but at the same time, we are often enticed and driven to latch onto the most current view by eschewing anything that went before because we feel we are at a vantage point, which we deem superior to the previous one. Regardless of the truth and value of this, issues may arise when this is done in a radical and absolutist way and by denying or ignoring the necessary nuances and considerations that come with it.
Otto Rank The Soulful Psychoanalyst: From Psyche to Beyond Psychology
1 comment:
> It is in and by itself what it claims to denounce
Right!?.. This should be the first question to anyone claiming that there is no objective truth -- the question being, "Is that a fact?" If everything is subjective then whose truth and whose reality are we talking about?
I think what happens is that people confuse the Reality with their perspectives of it. It is the perspective that is often subjective -- although it does not have to be. It takes effort, but we can piece together in our imagination a virtual copy, a simulation of the Reality, and then we can use that simulation to see how the Reality appears from different viewpoints, to see the full picture so to speak.
Until one competes that task, however, they will be limited to their individual perspective, which is, yes, valid, but also incomplete.
https://medium.com/@yuri-z7/is-it-square-or-round-550597d0d788
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